There is always Two Way

Do you remember the old movies? in which there will be two best friends/two twice. They both play together, study together in the same school, have common friends. But when they become elder, one becomes 'Police Inspector" and others become "Thief". Have you seen it...? I hope yes..

I mean from this story is that they grew up together in the same environment, had the same facilities, had the same friends circle. Then why one became 'Police Inspector" and others became "Thief." One became 'Extremely successful” and others became "Extremely failure."

Do you have any idea.....Why one became 'Extremely successful” and others became "Extremely failure?(Comment in the box)

Now, just think that the two boys from the story are you. There is a big possibility that you end up like one of friend (successor or failure). What are the reasons behind it? What decides that you become a successor or failure in your life? It is nothing but just the choices that you make in daily life.

Let's assume that you take roughly ten choices in a day and each choice takes one step forwards in the two directions. It may take you to towards your ideal self or the worst self.

Example: you have a choice to wake up early morning and late morning. If you choose to wake up early morning then it will take you towards the ideal self and if you choose to make up late morning then it leads to the worst self.

As I assumed that you make ten choices per day, which takes you ten steps, either direction. But there is a possibility that your choices do not lead you to any of the direction "Neutral". Maybe you make your choices in such a way. You stand in middle, not a successor or a failure. Many of us are in that range.

Example: Suppose that you make choices that lead you towards one direction and also the same amount in opposite direction. Five good choices and five bad choices. Basically, each choice canceling each other out. If you are in this stage or any of one "successor or a failure." Don't worry. Just be with me till the end then you will know what to do to solve your problem.

Let's imagine if you were making five good choices and five bad choices. If you can replace just one of the negative choices from your daily life.  Now, you make six steps towards your ideal self and 4 steps back to worst self. Here, we observed that one positive choice leads you 20 percent towards your ideal self.

Suddenly you reached a completely different position. Definitely, there will be a different picture if you make better choices every day. But this is highly unrealistic because no one can constantly do this. However, it is not necessary to do it constantly. Just make good choices more often than bad ones. Here the only one thing that matters the most that you are heading forward to your ideal self and the correct path.

Here, I will tell you how to make good choices more often than bad ones.  Just keep in mind, next time, you jump on the sofa/bed to watch Netflix/Amazon/T.V or play a video game, then just think for 20 seconds and ask yourself. It is the best choice or there is something better which you can do instead of watching Netflix/Amazon/T.V or play a video game. I do not about you. But I try to think about what would the ideal version of me do in this kind of situation? I can assure you that questioning ourselves is really helpful. It allows us to pause our behavior, and readjust our actions if required.

Furthermore, we have to understand if we desire to become an ideal version of ourselves, we have to do it now, what our best version would. Not later, not next time, not tomorrow, not next week, but now.

I know many of us love to delay our actions. They feel that in the future they will somehow become more energetic, more motivated, and work harder and all will be well. But they do not know that this habit keeps them away from their own true potential capacity. Most of them do not have any idea that in the future, they will not become magically different human beings. They will be the same person as they are today if they do not take any actions to become a better person as required. By the time it is detected, most people have spent many years on the wrong path. Because they always kept thinking that they will change in the future, but in the end they never did. Now they have to make many good daily choices just to return on track.

That is why questioning is very important if we desire to become an ideal version of ourselves, we have to do it now, what our best version would. Not later, not next time, not tomorrow, not next week, but now.

What we will become in the future is mainly based on the choice-making process in daily life. So make sure you should ask yourself what your best version would in every situation.

Choice has the power to impact our future. We may not able to see the importance of our choice today, even not tomorrow. We will notice it when our choices already affect us adversely over time.

So, as of now we able to understand that if we make good choices more over time, it will lead to the path of success "Ideal Self", or when we repeat continuously bad choices over time it will lead to the path of failure "Worst Self".  I hope now you understand the power of choice.

So, the question is to you that which version will choose to be "Today"(Comment in the box below)

Here, I want to understand how the choices lead us to the way of success or failure. So, I have asked in the form regarding ten common choices which we will take in our daily life. I kindly request you to please answer correctly and unbiased. The link is given below.

 https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLScklMqvKhPO7LlSZhny3E3RKFP6MMKjmhlNNzkf5wHDUUrYYA/viewform?usp=pp_url

 

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